Saturday, December 31, 2011
Is this a declaration of war?
A few years ago in Australia, there was a case where a major bikie gang, openly attacked a police station. The police hold off the attack and then force the gang to retreat, with reinforcment from other police stations. While the Australia governent didn't do so, In my opinion what this biki gang did can be consider as a declaration of war on the state and if I'm in charge of Australia. I'll use this as an opportunity to declare this gang as enemy of the state and send in commandos, F16 and special forces, to wipe them out, if I have to. What is your opinion on this?
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
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Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Monday, December 12, 2011
Should we create laws limiting the maximum amount of property gang members can have
Imagine this, you work hard your entire life, then one day, the organized crime want your money, so, they break into your house in great number tie you up and hold a gun to your head, telling you that you must sign the deed of your three houses, all of your money and ownership to your restaurant to them, or they will put two bullets in your head and to prove they mean business, they put two bullets into your daughter's head first. Without a choice, you sign everything you work hard for, your entire life to them. Now, you got nothing. These are stuff that should not be happening.
Another fact, gangsters frequently create company to be use as a front for their criminal activities.
So, to put restrain on gang's criminal activity and to protect our property, do you believe we should create a law, that limited the maximum amount of property and money that a gang member is allow to have?
Another fact, gangsters frequently create company to be use as a front for their criminal activities.
So, to put restrain on gang's criminal activity and to protect our property, do you believe we should create a law, that limited the maximum amount of property and money that a gang member is allow to have?
Check out the list of people that read my blog, throughout the world
Hey guys,
Because all my blogs are connected to google, I can use it to see, the number of viewership I get from every country in the world!!! :)
Anyway, I find this exciting so, I want to share it with you. This is the number I get from the past week
Australia
137
United States
300
United Kingdom
96
Malaysia
34
Bulgaria
3
Vietnam
4
Venezuela
2
United Arab Emirates
6
Ukraine
0
Turkey
12
Trinidad and Tobago
1
Thailand
5
Taiwan
1
(That suck, I am from Taiwan, I am really hoping to have more hit counts from there and I know that is my cousin, who click on it :( )
Sweden
1
Sri Lanka
3
Spain
4
South Korea
1
South Africa
1
Slovakia
1
Singapore
17
Serbia and Montenegro
3
Saudi Arabia
5
Russia
10
Romania
3
Qatar
3
Puerto Rico
2
Portugal
2
Poland
6
Philippines
26
Peru
3
Paraguay
1
Pakistan
1
New Zealand
2
Netherlands
5
Morocco
2
Mexico
7
Malta
0
Macedonia [FYROM]
1
Libya
1
Latvia
0
Kenya
1
Japan
1
Jamaica
4
Italy
12
Israel
2
Indonesia
32
India
25
Hungary
2
Hong Kong
1
Guatemala
2
Sunday, December 11, 2011
2012 Sci Fi Movie Trailer: Battleship
It's a big call to say a movie will be the biggest blockbuster of the year, but Battleship certainly looks the part, and we've got the exclusive full trailer for you to watch now.
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Sarah Murdoch steps down from Australia's Next Top Model
Who will be Australia's next Australia's Next Top Model host? That's the question everyone will be asking after Sarah Murdoch announced she's leaving the super-popular reality show.
http://www.yourtv.com.au/blog.aspx?blogentryid=961587&showcomments=true
http://www.yourtv.com.au/blog.aspx?blogentryid=961587&showcomments=true
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Relationship adviced I gave (Love Triangle)
Hi, below is a piece of relatioship advice I gave to a person on this other website
The person asked
She's my college junior but we meet rarely as she has a boyfriend. we talk a lot thru texts.
she discusses her problems wid me bout her sour relationship with her 2 yr. serious boyfriend from her same community. she tells me what if she dumps him , she'll be all alone. we practically share every thing but through texts only. she never calls me and if somtime I call her up she never answers. its been 6 months since I knw her and we have barely talked on phn. for 2-3 times. I really like her and she is totally my type. what should I do. I can't ask her out coz she has a bf. I don't even knw is she likes me like that n I dnt wanna ruin my frndship also. plz. help. thnx
My Response is
Oh boy, this type of love triangle is always problematic. In general sense, it is not a good idea to give relatioship advice to girls you have romantic feeling towards, because it is difficult to be objective, therefore difficult to give good advice.
You have to understand one thing about girls, a lot of girls choose to get and stay into a relatioship for the wrong reason. I once met a girl who is in a relatioship, with a guy she don't love, because she felt obligated to be with him, but she really love somebody else. I also once met a girl, who choose to stay in a relatioship where her boyfriend decided to married somebody else and want to keep dating her afterwards, she find it hard to leave the relationship, because she have low self esteem and fear not been able to get another guy afterwards. The truth is, (and I am not trying to be sexist here) when it come to relationship, girls frequently have their head in the sand and don't even know what they want and don't even understand their own feelings, mostly because they are been taught a distorted perspective about love and marriagae since a young age, for example, a lot of woman believe having a second class man, is better then having no man at all. Some even believe having a man that bash her up is better then having no man.
In this instant, I give these advice (1) Tell her that it is alright to be along, sometime been along is better then been with the wrong person. (2) Tell her that in a relationship it is important for her to be honest with herself and her partner, she can't avoid her problems, she must have the courage to deal with it in the most appropriate manner possible and try to create the best solution for it, it can be that they should break up, it can be that they should talk and work things out by making some changes. (3) Remind her that a relatioship is about two people and whether they are compatable for each other's word, if it is meant to be, it is meant to be and even if there are problem, it is all easy to deal with, if it is not meant to be, then it is not meant to be, it is better to end it early then to stay in an unhappy relationship, as those relationship are just distructive to everyone involved. (4) but most important of all, tell her to always be honest with herself and be herself. You should not really give any other advice, other then these I told you, because by feel romantic towards her, it is hard for you to see things objectively in all these.
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The person asked
She's my college junior but we meet rarely as she has a boyfriend. we talk a lot thru texts.
she discusses her problems wid me bout her sour relationship with her 2 yr. serious boyfriend from her same community. she tells me what if she dumps him , she'll be all alone. we practically share every thing but through texts only. she never calls me and if somtime I call her up she never answers. its been 6 months since I knw her and we have barely talked on phn. for 2-3 times. I really like her and she is totally my type. what should I do. I can't ask her out coz she has a bf. I don't even knw is she likes me like that n I dnt wanna ruin my frndship also. plz. help. thnx
My Response is
Oh boy, this type of love triangle is always problematic. In general sense, it is not a good idea to give relatioship advice to girls you have romantic feeling towards, because it is difficult to be objective, therefore difficult to give good advice.
You have to understand one thing about girls, a lot of girls choose to get and stay into a relatioship for the wrong reason. I once met a girl who is in a relatioship, with a guy she don't love, because she felt obligated to be with him, but she really love somebody else. I also once met a girl, who choose to stay in a relatioship where her boyfriend decided to married somebody else and want to keep dating her afterwards, she find it hard to leave the relationship, because she have low self esteem and fear not been able to get another guy afterwards. The truth is, (and I am not trying to be sexist here) when it come to relationship, girls frequently have their head in the sand and don't even know what they want and don't even understand their own feelings, mostly because they are been taught a distorted perspective about love and marriagae since a young age, for example, a lot of woman believe having a second class man, is better then having no man at all. Some even believe having a man that bash her up is better then having no man.
In this instant, I give these advice (1) Tell her that it is alright to be along, sometime been along is better then been with the wrong person. (2) Tell her that in a relationship it is important for her to be honest with herself and her partner, she can't avoid her problems, she must have the courage to deal with it in the most appropriate manner possible and try to create the best solution for it, it can be that they should break up, it can be that they should talk and work things out by making some changes. (3) Remind her that a relatioship is about two people and whether they are compatable for each other's word, if it is meant to be, it is meant to be and even if there are problem, it is all easy to deal with, if it is not meant to be, then it is not meant to be, it is better to end it early then to stay in an unhappy relationship, as those relationship are just distructive to everyone involved. (4) but most important of all, tell her to always be honest with herself and be herself. You should not really give any other advice, other then these I told you, because by feel romantic towards her, it is hard for you to see things objectively in all these.
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Friday, December 9, 2011
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Saturday, December 3, 2011
The sins of our Western attitude towards royalty
s an Asian, my understanding towards British monarchy, from our perspective, is they are sinful.
Many Western believe in regards to royalty and relationship between royal and none royal are consider to be problematic an d sinful in Eastern ideologies.
Since as far back as history can record (5000years ago), the Eastern world, believe a nation is common property of the people, therefore policy must be set in public interest, this ideology was furture reinforce by Confouscious ideology, while talking about the ethic of a King's rule, saying the King must respect the fact that the nation is common property of all and therefore the King is a public servent and should rule in public interest. (It is also one of the reason, why democracy spread like wild fire, after it was introduce to the east) In prior to introducing democratic goverment structure, rulers (Emperors) who failed to rule in public interest are remove from office, if able via legal mean, if not, by force. (e.g. revolt) When an Emperor is removed by force, the new Emperor the people choose, usually have no blood tie to the previous royal family. We also believe what is relevant to determine if a person is better then another, is determine by a his/her action. Race, religion, royality or even if he is a king, is irrelevant, as a result, unlike in the west, marriage between royal and none royal is the norm. Kings usually insist for Princess to marrie upper class, but not necessary royality, Princess frequently marry senator or knights or their children or grand children, otherwise respect scholars, wealthy businessman's family and sometime royalty of another nation. Prince marrie woman of all class, historically very few Asian Queens came from a royal family and Queen born from a working class family, are common.
So you can see why from Eastern point of view, many ways of Britsh royals historically, can be seen as sinful. E.g. 'divin right of the king", "king is god's given right", "royals to better then none royals simply because they are royals"(How dare they! Jesus' head apprentice Peter isn't royal, are the royals better then him, too?), refer to royal and none royal relationship as "royal and commeners", royal and none royal should not wed. While Gen Y royals are normal, these sinful believe still have some hold over older royals,
(Example that support these sin still might have a hold over older royals, include the fact they still insist for us to refer to them as "Your royal highness" and can't forget the word "royal" in it. Political figure have title too "usually is your honor or your excellency" but apart from former document or in court, we do not refer to them that way. The only royals who don't insist for people to refer to them as "Your highness" are gen Y royals)
Many Asians who first came to the West, (including myself) was shocked and suprise, by the fact, that there are western nation with this sort of believe and was even more suprise by the fact UK is one of them (although, I did heard a rumor saying that Prince Chales wanted Princess Diana to refer to him as "sir", when they were married, if that is true, I guess we now know why.), The reason most Asian would find it to be so shocking, is because, firstly, democratic government structure is invented by the west, secondly, the fact that, under America's leadership, the West stood firm again communism and stood firm to supprt freedom during the cold war and thirdly, unlike in Asia, the west never have the custom saying a person need to kneel in front of the Emperor and is not allow to see the Emperor's face until the Emperor allow (in Japan, such custom, is not abolish until after WW2). When you put all these factors into consideration, no Asians who do not live in the west or are not specialist in understanding the west, could imagin the west having these problematic ideology. Once coming to the west, many Asians were shocked by the fact the west have these problematic ideologies in regards to royalty and sicken by it, even more. While the west have greatly improved since the introducing of constutional monarchy and the revival of democratic government sturcture and these problematic behavior no longer exist amount Gen Y royals, many work still need to be done, example that reflect that, is that, even today, royal and none royal relationship are still been refer to as "Royal and commoners", considering royalty is irrelevant to determine whether a person is better then other, it mean royals and none royals are equals therefore the referral of "Royal and commoners" are naturally inappropriate, as the royals are also commoners, like us.
Many Western believe in regards to royalty and relationship between royal and none royal are consider to be problematic an d sinful in Eastern ideologies.
Since as far back as history can record (5000years ago), the Eastern world, believe a nation is common property of the people, therefore policy must be set in public interest, this ideology was furture reinforce by Confouscious ideology, while talking about the ethic of a King's rule, saying the King must respect the fact that the nation is common property of all and therefore the King is a public servent and should rule in public interest. (It is also one of the reason, why democracy spread like wild fire, after it was introduce to the east) In prior to introducing democratic goverment structure, rulers (Emperors) who failed to rule in public interest are remove from office, if able via legal mean, if not, by force. (e.g. revolt) When an Emperor is removed by force, the new Emperor the people choose, usually have no blood tie to the previous royal family. We also believe what is relevant to determine if a person is better then another, is determine by a his/her action. Race, religion, royality or even if he is a king, is irrelevant, as a result, unlike in the west, marriage between royal and none royal is the norm. Kings usually insist for Princess to marrie upper class, but not necessary royality, Princess frequently marry senator or knights or their children or grand children, otherwise respect scholars, wealthy businessman's family and sometime royalty of another nation. Prince marrie woman of all class, historically very few Asian Queens came from a royal family and Queen born from a working class family, are common.
So you can see why from Eastern point of view, many ways of Britsh royals historically, can be seen as sinful. E.g. 'divin right of the king", "king is god's given right", "royals to better then none royals simply because they are royals"(How dare they! Jesus' head apprentice Peter isn't royal, are the royals better then him, too?), refer to royal and none royal relationship as "royal and commeners", royal and none royal should not wed. While Gen Y royals are normal, these sinful believe still have some hold over older royals,
(Example that support these sin still might have a hold over older royals, include the fact they still insist for us to refer to them as "Your royal highness" and can't forget the word "royal" in it. Political figure have title too "usually is your honor or your excellency" but apart from former document or in court, we do not refer to them that way. The only royals who don't insist for people to refer to them as "Your highness" are gen Y royals)
Many Asians who first came to the West, (including myself) was shocked and suprise, by the fact, that there are western nation with this sort of believe and was even more suprise by the fact UK is one of them (although, I did heard a rumor saying that Prince Chales wanted Princess Diana to refer to him as "sir", when they were married, if that is true, I guess we now know why.), The reason most Asian would find it to be so shocking, is because, firstly, democratic government structure is invented by the west, secondly, the fact that, under America's leadership, the West stood firm again communism and stood firm to supprt freedom during the cold war and thirdly, unlike in Asia, the west never have the custom saying a person need to kneel in front of the Emperor and is not allow to see the Emperor's face until the Emperor allow (in Japan, such custom, is not abolish until after WW2). When you put all these factors into consideration, no Asians who do not live in the west or are not specialist in understanding the west, could imagin the west having these problematic ideology. Once coming to the west, many Asians were shocked by the fact the west have these problematic ideologies in regards to royalty and sicken by it, even more. While the west have greatly improved since the introducing of constutional monarchy and the revival of democratic government sturcture and these problematic behavior no longer exist amount Gen Y royals, many work still need to be done, example that reflect that, is that, even today, royal and none royal relationship are still been refer to as "Royal and commoners", considering royalty is irrelevant to determine whether a person is better then other, it mean royals and none royals are equals therefore the referral of "Royal and commoners" are naturally inappropriate, as the royals are also commoners, like us.
Friday, December 2, 2011
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
99 instant family saving tips
Start saving If you're feeling the financial pinch this season, here are some ways to tighten your belt.
Even if you just adapt half-a-dozen ideas, you will be saving some serious change.
So start by keeping a change jar
Click here to read this article
Even if you just adapt half-a-dozen ideas, you will be saving some serious change.
So start by keeping a change jar
Click here to read this article
Former Tas MP avoids jail over child sex
A former Tasmanian MP has dodged an immediate jail term after being found guilty of having sex with a 12-year-old.
Click here to read the article
Click here to read the article
Monday, November 28, 2011
Watch online here: NBA Finals 2011 - Game 1 - Dallas Mavericks vs. Miami Heat
Sunday, November 27, 2011
Saturday, November 26, 2011
A trick to get your kid to eat drink water when they are sick
Usually, when your children are sick, it would be a good idea to get them to drink a lot of water (and not any water, but plan water) this is especially the case during the first day, because you try wash out the virus, within their body, before they even have an opportunity to multiplie within the children's body.
But sometime, it might be difficult to get some children to drink large quantity of water and giving them a beating won't necessary help, especially if the kid is ill it might not be a good idea to slap your kids, under such circumstances. In this instant try this trick. Add two tea spoon of sugar into ever sizable glass of water, that you want your kids to drink. Your children would love it, because it is sweet and they would gulp in down so quickly and ask you for more :)
It work with my dog, my neighbour's kids and cousin's kids too (I told them to try it this way), so maybe, this would work with your kids too. :)
But sometime, it might be difficult to get some children to drink large quantity of water and giving them a beating won't necessary help, especially if the kid is ill it might not be a good idea to slap your kids, under such circumstances. In this instant try this trick. Add two tea spoon of sugar into ever sizable glass of water, that you want your kids to drink. Your children would love it, because it is sweet and they would gulp in down so quickly and ask you for more :)
It work with my dog, my neighbour's kids and cousin's kids too (I told them to try it this way), so maybe, this would work with your kids too. :)
Friday, November 25, 2011
Newsreader sacked for giving Obama the finger
A top Russian TV network has sacked an award-winning news anchor who stunned viewers by inexplicably raising her middle finger after reading US President Barack Obama's name.
Click here to watch this video
Click here to watch this video
Dog won't leave owner's grave
A loyal dog has held a vigil for more than a week at the grave of its owner in China, prompting villagers to plan to build a kennel for it in the cemetery.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Divorce Lawyer, How to Hire a Divorce Lawyer
As much as we don't want to, the fact is that 50% of all marriages ended up in divorce and frequently in divorce, things get ugly. So, I found you this article about how to hire a divorce lawyer, in case you ever need it (hopefully it is never)
Click here to read this article
Click here to read this article
Monday, November 21, 2011
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Thursday, November 17, 2011
Jui-Wei Yang's blog: U.S. President Barack Obama addresses the Australi...
Jui-Wei Yang's blog: U.S. President Barack Obama addresses the Australi...: U.S. President Barack Obama addresses the Australian Parliament 17-11-2011
U.S. President Barack Obama addresses the Australian Parliament 17-11-2011
U.S. President Barack Obama addresses the Australian Parliament 17-11-2011
Tuesday, November 15, 2011
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Monday, November 7, 2011
Jay Chou MTV: Cute girl
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Wednesday, July 13, 2011
Novel: Hailey's story: Novel: Hailey's Story Chapter 1 Part 3 of 3
Novel: Hailey's story: Novel: Hailey's Story Chapter 1 Part 3 of 3: "Novel: Hailey's story Chapter 1 Part 3 of 3 March 28th 2011 04:42 Character: Chan Wong ~In the same time in Chan and Emma’s apartment “..."
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Funny Scam Email Part 2
The funny Email Scam artist strike again, after I totally told him/her off with the last Email, he/she send me this following Email
Hi Dear,
How are you today? My dear thank you so much for your mail I have gone through your mail is well understood, My dear I want you to understand the condition which lead me to Senegal, I ran away from my country because my uncle trying to kill me so that he will take over all my late fathers properties, So when I came to Senegal, I went to the bank where my late father deposited the money so that I can withdraw some money as the next of kin to the account and start a new life. Unfortunately, I did not know that my late father signed an agreement with the bank that the money should not be released directly to me if not married or up to 30years.
The agreement states that I should appoint a foreign trustee/ investor any time I want to take the money from the bank before I am 30 years. I understand that the foreign investor is to invest and manage the money for me in a good business. I was told that it will not be possible for me to indulge in financial transaction because of my age as refugee statue and law that governs this country.
So the bank people advised me that since I am not yet 30 years and not married, I should look for someone to stand for me for claims in accordance with their agreement with my late father. Actually, this is why I contacted you, to help me transfer this money to yourbank account in your country.
Secondly, I like your country and I want to live there and continue my education. You don't have to be afraid because the money was deposited with my name as the next of kin to inherit the fund. Despite the money I really want a man who will care and love me, I need a man who will always tell me the truth from his heart, I need a man who will be my brother my best friends and if the nature permit it my husband.
My dear, I can not go back to my country because my uncle will kill me I am scared of losing my life, please I want you to find your hear to help me out from this condition I am, anyway I will drop here for now hope to hear from you soon bye.
Yours truly,
Fatima
Seriously, he/she or they are still not giving it a rest aren't they? :)
Hi Dear,
How are you today? My dear thank you so much for your mail I have gone through your mail is well understood, My dear I want you to understand the condition which lead me to Senegal, I ran away from my country because my uncle trying to kill me so that he will take over all my late fathers properties, So when I came to Senegal, I went to the bank where my late father deposited the money so that I can withdraw some money as the next of kin to the account and start a new life. Unfortunately, I did not know that my late father signed an agreement with the bank that the money should not be released directly to me if not married or up to 30years.
The agreement states that I should appoint a foreign trustee/ investor any time I want to take the money from the bank before I am 30 years. I understand that the foreign investor is to invest and manage the money for me in a good business. I was told that it will not be possible for me to indulge in financial transaction because of my age as refugee statue and law that governs this country.
So the bank people advised me that since I am not yet 30 years and not married, I should look for someone to stand for me for claims in accordance with their agreement with my late father. Actually, this is why I contacted you, to help me transfer this money to yourbank account in your country.
Secondly, I like your country and I want to live there and continue my education. You don't have to be afraid because the money was deposited with my name as the next of kin to inherit the fund. Despite the money I really want a man who will care and love me, I need a man who will always tell me the truth from his heart, I need a man who will be my brother my best friends and if the nature permit it my husband.
My dear, I can not go back to my country because my uncle will kill me I am scared of losing my life, please I want you to find your hear to help me out from this condition I am, anyway I will drop here for now hope to hear from you soon bye.
Yours truly,
Fatima
Seriously, he/she or they are still not giving it a rest aren't they? :)
Friday, March 18, 2011
Funny dating Scam Email
Hi guys,
I recieved this romantic sort Email a little while ago from some god know what wierd person. I can now be 100% certain it must be a scam of some sort.
This is the original Email this person send me.
Hello Dear, My name is Fatima, i am a beautiful and romantic young girl i was impressed when i saw your profile on and will like to establish a long lasting relationship with you. In addition,i will like you to reply me. This is because i don't know the possibilities of remaining in forum for a long time. please If you are interested in knowing more about me, and for me to send you some pictures of mine, Thanks waiting to hear from you . With all my love, Miss Fatima You can send me an email ok; missfatimamk13@yahoo.de
The only thing that was going through my head was "What the hell?" This is especially considering the fact, I "DIDN'T JOIN ANY DATING SITE" So, I send an email back saying
I am not the comittment type
PS: What profile? I didn't join any dating site
Then this person send me this Email and two photos as attachment with it
Hello Dearest,
Thanks for your mail, i really appreciate it so much.
I am excited to hear from you, you are such a nice person, i always dream to meet some one like you, as for that reason i will never hide anything from you.I am alright only that life has not been easy for me, more over my name is Miss Fatima Dim Deng, i am from Sudan by Nationality, my late parents are Dr. and Mrs Dominic Dim Deng. My father Dr.Dominic Dim Deng was the South Sudan Affairs and defense minister.
My parents were among with other 19 military officials have been killed as result of a plane crash between Wau and Juba,Sudan in Friday, May 2, 2008, After the burial of my late parents life becomes so difficult for me as the only child to my parents, my uncle conspired and sold my father's properties to a Chinese Expatriate, left nothing for me to survive with, explaining to me that as tradition demand, as a female issue i don't have any right to my father's properties, i tried to stand up for my right which he treating to kill me, that is the reason i find my way and run away from my country, i am residing in Senegal under the International federation of Red Cross Society. although life is not easy here.
i forgot to tell you my age in my last mail, i am 24 years old, am student of Accounting in the university before the incident, but i could not finish up my education, i was in 2rd year, i want to become an economics as profession.
We have the general over sea in the camp, he takes care of our welfare in the camp here, he is Pastor of (The Light of God Gospel Mission) here in the Dakar, his name is Reverend EJION, it was through his help that i could be able to contact you with his computer, he has a computer in his office that was were i used to send you mails. In case you want to call me, you can call me through his phone number, tell him that you want to speak with me, he will send for me at the Hostel to come and answer your call, he is such a nice man, always good to people, this is his phone number: 00221776715216 OR 00221766679838
There is some thing i want us to talk about, i know that is very difficult to get some one that is honest and sincere, this issue i am telling you is some thing i will not like you to review to any body, i am telling you this due to the trust i have seen in you, i feel your honest and understanding person, when my parents were alive they never hide anything from me as the only child.
After the death of my parent i was able to get my late father's Deposit Certificate were he Deposited his money, my uncle later got to know about it, that was his reason he was threatening me so that he could be able to claim the money. It contains £2.8 million British pounds (two Million eight Hundred Thousand pounds). and as the only child i am the next of kin, i am giving you all this information due to the trust I have deposed on you. When escaping out of my country i also took along with me my late father's Deposit Certificate too.
Here you can find out about my father death;
http://www.sudantribune.com/spip.php?article26975
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7380412.stm
at this moment i want to come out of this camp to live my normal life as a woman, i want you to help me so that i could be able to get this money, i have already contacted the bank and i found out and i was also informed by the bank that my father have an agreement with the bank that the money should be release to me when i get matured or as the case may be with an appointed trustee who could stand on my behalf to help me get the money.
I have kept this as a secret, even Reverend EJION does not know about it, but i will tell him as soon as you promise to help me out and i also want you to keep it to yourself too.
i want to go back to the hostel in few minutes from now we are going to have our three hours prayers, i will give you the information's of the bank in my next mail, once again thank you and God bless,waiting to hear from you soon.
and send me this two photos of this very hot girl, which this person claim to be him/herself
Now, I don't know about you. But this definitly seem like a scam to me.'
(Although the girl in that photo is kind of hot. Maybe it is the photo of a model taken off some magazine. )
The second Email this person sent me frequently reminded me of the studying of male sexual desire and how fairy tale frequently reflect it, which is why in stories such as Snow White and Sleeping Beauty the victim is always a weak, helpless and innocent victim and is 100% knock out hot. Well, this story reminded me of it completly. This person presented photos of a hot girl, (Score on the knock out hot part) protray him/her self as a weak, helpless and innocent victim (socre again on that part) and protray him/herself as the daughter of a high ranking official (score on that part again) and within this story that the person in this story presented, it make it seem like a situation where me the reader is in a position to play the prince charming or knight in shinning armor protecting the beautiful princess (once again score.)
What this further reminded me is Psychologist Philip C MacGraw's concept of fix believe, which is that sometime when a person believe or want to believe in something badly enough, they will refuse anything that contradict their believe, just to be able to continue to believe in what they want to believe in and they would also look for example and construct opinion that can be use in favor of this idea. Fix believe usually come into existence due to some form of reason e.g. want to be the knight in shinng armor protecting a madem in destress in a fairytale.
It also kind of reminded me of how western conservative ideology frequently believe for the west to be a male and the none west to be a female, considering the fact the girl in the photo is black, not white. It so play into the stereotype and its believe that a real woman is suppose to be a weak, helpless and innocent victim and those who are not like that are not real woman and a real woman is trust worthy and somebody who is not a real woman is not trust worthy. (At this stage, I am so glad I didn't grow up in a western family, especially not a western conservative family or I might just be conned my ass off.)
I don't know about you, but I think this person ahs done his/her homework and honestly, I think sooner or later, he/she is going to meet a conservative old man that is going to get con. I am just glad that isn't me.
But I have to say this girl...opps sorry...I mean this/these person/people (can either be a man or a woman) really know how to get to you.
Cheers
PS: Due to legal reason, if I am wrong about this been a scam. Then I apologise for what I say within this post right now. I am sorry.
Also, due to legal reason, if this person is been 100% honest, then I apologise for what I say within this post right now. I am sorry.
I recieved this romantic sort Email a little while ago from some god know what wierd person. I can now be 100% certain it must be a scam of some sort.
This is the original Email this person send me.
Hello Dear, My name is Fatima, i am a beautiful and romantic young girl i was impressed when i saw your profile on and will like to establish a long lasting relationship with you. In addition,i will like you to reply me. This is because i don't know the possibilities of remaining in forum for a long time. please If you are interested in knowing more about me, and for me to send you some pictures of mine, Thanks waiting to hear from you . With all my love, Miss Fatima You can send me an email ok; missfatimamk13@yahoo.de
The only thing that was going through my head was "What the hell?" This is especially considering the fact, I "DIDN'T JOIN ANY DATING SITE" So, I send an email back saying
I am not the comittment type
PS: What profile? I didn't join any dating site
Then this person send me this Email and two photos as attachment with it
Hello Dearest,
Thanks for your mail, i really appreciate it so much.
I am excited to hear from you, you are such a nice person, i always dream to meet some one like you, as for that reason i will never hide anything from you.I am alright only that life has not been easy for me, more over my name is Miss Fatima Dim Deng, i am from Sudan by Nationality, my late parents are Dr. and Mrs Dominic Dim Deng. My father Dr.Dominic Dim Deng was the South Sudan Affairs and defense minister.
My parents were among with other 19 military officials have been killed as result of a plane crash between Wau and Juba,Sudan in Friday, May 2, 2008, After the burial of my late parents life becomes so difficult for me as the only child to my parents, my uncle conspired and sold my father's properties to a Chinese Expatriate, left nothing for me to survive with, explaining to me that as tradition demand, as a female issue i don't have any right to my father's properties, i tried to stand up for my right which he treating to kill me, that is the reason i find my way and run away from my country, i am residing in Senegal under the International federation of Red Cross Society. although life is not easy here.
i forgot to tell you my age in my last mail, i am 24 years old, am student of Accounting in the university before the incident, but i could not finish up my education, i was in 2rd year, i want to become an economics as profession.
We have the general over sea in the camp, he takes care of our welfare in the camp here, he is Pastor of (The Light of God Gospel Mission) here in the Dakar, his name is Reverend EJION, it was through his help that i could be able to contact you with his computer, he has a computer in his office that was were i used to send you mails. In case you want to call me, you can call me through his phone number, tell him that you want to speak with me, he will send for me at the Hostel to come and answer your call, he is such a nice man, always good to people, this is his phone number: 00221776715216 OR 00221766679838
There is some thing i want us to talk about, i know that is very difficult to get some one that is honest and sincere, this issue i am telling you is some thing i will not like you to review to any body, i am telling you this due to the trust i have seen in you, i feel your honest and understanding person, when my parents were alive they never hide anything from me as the only child.
After the death of my parent i was able to get my late father's Deposit Certificate were he Deposited his money, my uncle later got to know about it, that was his reason he was threatening me so that he could be able to claim the money. It contains £2.8 million British pounds (two Million eight Hundred Thousand pounds). and as the only child i am the next of kin, i am giving you all this information due to the trust I have deposed on you. When escaping out of my country i also took along with me my late father's Deposit Certificate too.
Here you can find out about my father death;
http://www.sudantribune.com/spip.php?article26975
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/africa/7380412.stm
at this moment i want to come out of this camp to live my normal life as a woman, i want you to help me so that i could be able to get this money, i have already contacted the bank and i found out and i was also informed by the bank that my father have an agreement with the bank that the money should be release to me when i get matured or as the case may be with an appointed trustee who could stand on my behalf to help me get the money.
I have kept this as a secret, even Reverend EJION does not know about it, but i will tell him as soon as you promise to help me out and i also want you to keep it to yourself too.
i want to go back to the hostel in few minutes from now we are going to have our three hours prayers, i will give you the information's of the bank in my next mail, once again thank you and God bless,waiting to hear from you soon.
and send me this two photos of this very hot girl, which this person claim to be him/herself
Now, I don't know about you. But this definitly seem like a scam to me.'
(Although the girl in that photo is kind of hot. Maybe it is the photo of a model taken off some magazine. )
The second Email this person sent me frequently reminded me of the studying of male sexual desire and how fairy tale frequently reflect it, which is why in stories such as Snow White and Sleeping Beauty the victim is always a weak, helpless and innocent victim and is 100% knock out hot. Well, this story reminded me of it completly. This person presented photos of a hot girl, (Score on the knock out hot part) protray him/her self as a weak, helpless and innocent victim (socre again on that part) and protray him/herself as the daughter of a high ranking official (score on that part again) and within this story that the person in this story presented, it make it seem like a situation where me the reader is in a position to play the prince charming or knight in shinning armor protecting the beautiful princess (once again score.)
What this further reminded me is Psychologist Philip C MacGraw's concept of fix believe, which is that sometime when a person believe or want to believe in something badly enough, they will refuse anything that contradict their believe, just to be able to continue to believe in what they want to believe in and they would also look for example and construct opinion that can be use in favor of this idea. Fix believe usually come into existence due to some form of reason e.g. want to be the knight in shinng armor protecting a madem in destress in a fairytale.
It also kind of reminded me of how western conservative ideology frequently believe for the west to be a male and the none west to be a female, considering the fact the girl in the photo is black, not white. It so play into the stereotype and its believe that a real woman is suppose to be a weak, helpless and innocent victim and those who are not like that are not real woman and a real woman is trust worthy and somebody who is not a real woman is not trust worthy. (At this stage, I am so glad I didn't grow up in a western family, especially not a western conservative family or I might just be conned my ass off.)
I don't know about you, but I think this person ahs done his/her homework and honestly, I think sooner or later, he/she is going to meet a conservative old man that is going to get con. I am just glad that isn't me.
But I have to say this girl...opps sorry...I mean this/these person/people (can either be a man or a woman) really know how to get to you.
Cheers
PS: Due to legal reason, if I am wrong about this been a scam. Then I apologise for what I say within this post right now. I am sorry.
Also, due to legal reason, if this person is been 100% honest, then I apologise for what I say within this post right now. I am sorry.
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Research show western fairy tale to be the main cause of abusive relationship amount women (Opinion piece)
A research conducted two years ago, showed that almost 50% of women have been in either a physical or an emotionally abusive relationship and Western fairy tales and Conservative culture is the direct cause to it.
The research shows that, conservative culture and western fairy tales have been working hand in hand to brain wash women to believe in an unhealthy and unrealistic view of love, relationship and happiness, since a young age. This caused many women to look for a constructed version of happiness that is removed from reality and become vulnerable to predators who use this to their advantage.
The research conducted by psychologist Dr. Xxxx (which I forgot her name and I can not find it on the internet either.) stated that, conservative culture have create an illusion which makes women believes that, a happy and successful woman, is a woman who have a man. It constructed an idea that, no matter how successful you are in your career or as a mother or how happy your life is, the only definition of success or happiness for a woman is whether you have a man. Dr. Xxxx stated that, this resulted in many women to be looking for a man at all cost and if they can not find a decent guy, they will go for a settle for second grade male or even a male that can be abusive or even problematic, just so they can at least have a man in their life.
Fairy tale is also a major cause of abusive relationship amount females. Dr. Xxxx believe that because girls grow up been bombarded by the story of Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and other fairy tale princess. This result in girls growing up, tending to believing that the happiness within these story is what true happiness is suppose to be like, what true love is suppose to be like and to an even greater extend what a girl is suppose to be like. The result is that predators used these weaknesses to their advantage by presenting girls with an illusion of such fairy tale happiness and trapping them in an abusive relationship.
The major problem with the fairy tale version of happiness is that it really removed from reality. The subconscious truth about fairy tales is to firstly reinforcing conservative ideologies using of plot and story, where the mean doesn’t justify the end and secondly to fulfill male sexual desire.
In Snow White, Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty for example, they all reinforce the idea that true happiness for a woman is heterosexual marriage and looking for a prince charming and a woman that do not convert to these ideology should be unhappy. However, none of these fairy tale stories give their readers a justify reason of why it is the case.
For example, in Snow White and Cinderella it simply stated that, they live happily ever after, but did not tell their readers why. I mean if Snow White’s prince is a funny guy who makes her laugh or if Cinderella and her prince are soul mates, then it might justify their happiness to a certain extend. But imagine if Snow White’s prince is a snobby player who can’t stay faithful or if Cinderella’s prince is a repulsive wife beater. Would Snow White be so happy and would Cinderella be happier with her prince, then in comparison with her evil step mother?
However, the fairy tales simply stated these girls to be living happily ever after with their prince, without telling their readers any reason why. Cinderella and Snow White are not the only fairy tales which said the girls live happily ever after, without justifying why. In fact there is a whole category of fairy tale, which also reinforces the idea that happiness for a girl is heterosexual marriage and prince charming, without giving their readers any reasons.
According to Dr. Xxxx, it is because girls have been bombarded by stories like Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella, since their childhood, that they spend a quantity of their adulthood searching for this unrealistic version of love and relationship and it is why, predators can use this weakness to manipulate a woman into an abusive relationship and keeping her within his restrain.
Dr. Xxxx is not the first person to come up with this form of view about fairy tales. In fact the problematic natural of fairy tale is something that has been noticed by a lot of scholars, within the field of psychology, linguistic and social and culture analysis, including Virginal Wolf (I think, I am not sure about her), James Finn Garner, Sigmund Freud (who is been consider as the father of psychology by many.) and even my own culture study tutor from Uni Dr. Kishani Pilapitiya.
Amount all of these scholars Sigmund Freud went further to argue that fairy tale is really a representation of male sexual desire. He wrote for example that, the princesses within every single fairy tale are young, innocent, naïve, passive and extremely beautiful. To explain what Sigmund Freud is saying here in my own words is that, all of the princesses within these stories are extremely attractive looking girls or young women, they are good at heart not because they are wise, but because they are innocent (just to clarify here, there are two sort of good people in the world. The first sorts are innocent people. The second sorts are people that are wise.), the princesses are extremely passive and it is extremely easy to get them into bed with you, in other word a seductive object of pure sexual desire.
PS: If anybody know any additional information in regards to this topic or happens to know that I might have made a mistake within the information I have given above, please feel free to make a comment about it.
I am quite certain that my information is accurate, but just in case, feel free to make a comment if you happen to know that I have made a mistake amount the information I have given above.
And pleasssssssse, if any body knows the real name of Dr. Xxxx, can you please write it down for me within the comments pleasssssssse?
Oh yes and if you know any additional information in regards to this topic, please feel free to make a comment about it.
Cheers
The research shows that, conservative culture and western fairy tales have been working hand in hand to brain wash women to believe in an unhealthy and unrealistic view of love, relationship and happiness, since a young age. This caused many women to look for a constructed version of happiness that is removed from reality and become vulnerable to predators who use this to their advantage.
The research conducted by psychologist Dr. Xxxx (which I forgot her name and I can not find it on the internet either.) stated that, conservative culture have create an illusion which makes women believes that, a happy and successful woman, is a woman who have a man. It constructed an idea that, no matter how successful you are in your career or as a mother or how happy your life is, the only definition of success or happiness for a woman is whether you have a man. Dr. Xxxx stated that, this resulted in many women to be looking for a man at all cost and if they can not find a decent guy, they will go for a settle for second grade male or even a male that can be abusive or even problematic, just so they can at least have a man in their life.
Fairy tale is also a major cause of abusive relationship amount females. Dr. Xxxx believe that because girls grow up been bombarded by the story of Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and other fairy tale princess. This result in girls growing up, tending to believing that the happiness within these story is what true happiness is suppose to be like, what true love is suppose to be like and to an even greater extend what a girl is suppose to be like. The result is that predators used these weaknesses to their advantage by presenting girls with an illusion of such fairy tale happiness and trapping them in an abusive relationship.
The major problem with the fairy tale version of happiness is that it really removed from reality. The subconscious truth about fairy tales is to firstly reinforcing conservative ideologies using of plot and story, where the mean doesn’t justify the end and secondly to fulfill male sexual desire.
In Snow White, Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty for example, they all reinforce the idea that true happiness for a woman is heterosexual marriage and looking for a prince charming and a woman that do not convert to these ideology should be unhappy. However, none of these fairy tale stories give their readers a justify reason of why it is the case.
For example, in Snow White and Cinderella it simply stated that, they live happily ever after, but did not tell their readers why. I mean if Snow White’s prince is a funny guy who makes her laugh or if Cinderella and her prince are soul mates, then it might justify their happiness to a certain extend. But imagine if Snow White’s prince is a snobby player who can’t stay faithful or if Cinderella’s prince is a repulsive wife beater. Would Snow White be so happy and would Cinderella be happier with her prince, then in comparison with her evil step mother?
However, the fairy tales simply stated these girls to be living happily ever after with their prince, without telling their readers any reason why. Cinderella and Snow White are not the only fairy tales which said the girls live happily ever after, without justifying why. In fact there is a whole category of fairy tale, which also reinforces the idea that happiness for a girl is heterosexual marriage and prince charming, without giving their readers any reasons.
According to Dr. Xxxx, it is because girls have been bombarded by stories like Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella, since their childhood, that they spend a quantity of their adulthood searching for this unrealistic version of love and relationship and it is why, predators can use this weakness to manipulate a woman into an abusive relationship and keeping her within his restrain.
Dr. Xxxx is not the first person to come up with this form of view about fairy tales. In fact the problematic natural of fairy tale is something that has been noticed by a lot of scholars, within the field of psychology, linguistic and social and culture analysis, including Virginal Wolf (I think, I am not sure about her), James Finn Garner, Sigmund Freud (who is been consider as the father of psychology by many.) and even my own culture study tutor from Uni Dr. Kishani Pilapitiya.
Amount all of these scholars Sigmund Freud went further to argue that fairy tale is really a representation of male sexual desire. He wrote for example that, the princesses within every single fairy tale are young, innocent, naïve, passive and extremely beautiful. To explain what Sigmund Freud is saying here in my own words is that, all of the princesses within these stories are extremely attractive looking girls or young women, they are good at heart not because they are wise, but because they are innocent (just to clarify here, there are two sort of good people in the world. The first sorts are innocent people. The second sorts are people that are wise.), the princesses are extremely passive and it is extremely easy to get them into bed with you, in other word a seductive object of pure sexual desire.
PS: If anybody know any additional information in regards to this topic or happens to know that I might have made a mistake within the information I have given above, please feel free to make a comment about it.
I am quite certain that my information is accurate, but just in case, feel free to make a comment if you happen to know that I have made a mistake amount the information I have given above.
And pleasssssssse, if any body knows the real name of Dr. Xxxx, can you please write it down for me within the comments pleasssssssse?
Oh yes and if you know any additional information in regards to this topic, please feel free to make a comment about it.
Cheers
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